Jeffrey Bond (no date). From his publication Being an athletic parent.

• treat the child the same, irrespective of winning and losing;
• look relaxed, calm and positive on the sidelines;
• make friends with other parents at competitions;
• be an understanding listener rather than a critic, judge or fixer;
• let the child know your love is not related to sporting performance;
• occasionally let your child compete without you being there - do not hover.

• take the credit by saying things like "we are playing today";
• become pushy or believe you are indispensable;
• make enemies of your child's opponents/family;
• make them feel guilty by reminding them of your sacrifices;
• compare their performance to those of other children;
• badger, harass or use sarcasm to motivate.

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